Matthew has come and gone now and it has been a couple weeks again since I have written anything. I know that I have been really bad with this and need to get it together soon. It is so hard to get into writing when at the moment I only see Matthew for a couple weeks a month and then go a month without seeing him, so when he is here we are fairly busy and doing lots of stuff.
So let me catch you up again, Matthew arrived in time for his birthday and he brought the cats out here so now they are with me and the 4 animals and I are in our tiny little apartment , though the cats have adjusted amazingly and are doing great with being indoor cats and the dogs are loving having them back with them.
Matts parents were also out here in Toronto until the 10th and we went out to his aunts and had a family dinner to celebrate his mom and dads birthdays. It was lovely and all the women in his family were amazing and very accepting, the 2 men who married into the family however were not so great and even told Matts aunt that because we are gay, they didn't want us anywhere near their kids and the 2 husbands were so immature that they even ate dinner in another room away from Matthew and I and the rest of the family, grow up boys, it's 2011 and we are not a disease we are gay! Anyhow his blood relatives are lovely and I am glad to have met them all.
Matthew and I also looked at a whole lot of houses while he was here and did a lot of research into the real estate market here and tried to figure out where we want to be and which areas will be the best suited for us to live in. Looking at all these properties was actually more exhausting than I ever thought it could be, but it was also a lot of fun and time well spent together. We met an amazing realtor named Danny and he was just fabulous with us, taking us everywhere and showing us the up and coming areas and different houses through out the city.
Yesterday evening Matthew left again and now I am going through my little sad stage for a while here on my own with the kids. Matthew is back in Vancouver listing the house and getting things all done there so when the house sells he will be back here permanently with all of us here in Toronto and now all we have to do is find a place here suitable for our little family to live in.
The poor guy has so much to do back in Vancouver such as paint the ceiling, pack everything, paint the back steps and also fix up some minor details throughout the house, like back splash and small finishing touches in the kitchen and stuff.
Meanwhile I will be here in Toronto and still looking at houses and stuff. Emailing Matt what I find on a daily basis and trying to make the right decisions on what we want and would be happy in and something for the both of us to start our married life in together.
I will try to be more consistent in my writing here again and keep you all up to date. Talk soon and have a great Sunday.
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