If there is a glimmer of truth isn't that when it hurts and bothers people. I know it is because people use to call me gay and it would hurt like hell.
I write what I want to write on here and I do this under my name and do not hide behind any false pretenses or names or pretend to be anyone else ever.
If you want to write me comments or whatever pertaining to anything I write or have ever written at least have the courage to do it as you, I have the courage to live as I am and as who I am.
I am Michael and i am a 42 year old gay male who is married and disassociated myself with what use to be family.
I do not regret what I write or anything I say on here about anyone ever, this is called freedom of speech and I write things as I see them at the time I write them. If I say something to offend you then call me out on , don't get your spouse to do your dirty work and please don't phone me or my spouse.
I refuse to mention my family that I use to belong to on here at all because those are just wasted words and I am proud of what I write and who I am. I wish they would all just do the same and please try to forget I exist, I have been working on forgetting you all exist every day and yes it does get easier.
I do not wish any of you any ill or bad things but do want you all to respect my wishes and leave us alone, this is why we as a couple choose to live in Toronto.
And to those of you who said to get off my ass and get a job, I will have you know I work my ass off every day, unlike some of you!
Just to add to what is posted above and about this family. The definition of family by websters is .."Those who descend from one common progenitor; a tribe, clan, or race; kindred; house; as, the human family; the family of Abraham; the father of a family.".Given that definition,and all the others I found online, not one definition stated anything about choosing your family. You cant choose your family anymore than you can choose your skin or eye colour. However given that you dont choose your family, you can make different choices in regards to your family. In no way does constant harassment,berating,and high charged judgemental scolding by family have a place in constructive family communications.Assuming their was a family unit to begin with. I've witnessed some pretty horrible things, both action and words, that have come out of this so called family unit that my husband blogs about. Last night was the icing on the cake for me, Getting a phone call from a so called family member threatening to sue us because they disagreed with the factual information blogged about by Michael. Liable and slander or defamation of character only works in the courts if you have a "character" to defame. Normally I dont read this blog I stopped doing it a long time ago. But since then I have reviewed many posts on here and responses by various people. All I have to say is "life is way to short" go and get on with your life instead of expending energy on the hatred and anger about other peoples lives. Now granted, this blog is public and it opens up in a very personal way alot of our lives,but in no way does that excuse hatred, bitterness, bias and homophobia. To those family who still read this its not us that should stop blogging its you folks who should maybe start looking at yourselves and your actions because thats the only thing that will let the rest of the world know who and what you really are like. Remeber this is a blog and opinion public forum written from one persons' point of view. Point of view and reality do combine just they are different things to everyone. Written by Matt - the husband of Michael
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