Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Being Gay Is Not a Choice

Being gay has never been easy but it is my life and I deal with it everyday and wouldn't change it for the world. You do not choose this lifestyle and it is like every other minority in the world with perhaps a bit more hatred pointed towards it. 
During my life I have been picked on, yelled slurs at, ignored and temporarily disowned  by family and friends, gay bashed, turned down for certain jobs, shunned, domestic abuse. rape and  many other things. But I am still here and stronger for everything that has been thrown my way. I will elaborate more on all these events so you may get to know me better as the year goes by. Just so you know you have to take all this and move on and grow stronger from who you are and accept those who are less tolerant of your lifestyle. Just stand up and be heard and be yourself.  Some may call me a very black and white person, others may refer to me as a bitch. I refer to myself as a very proud and strong gay male. I am very opinionated and set in my ways.
Those who love me truly love me and those who don't well I guess that is their loss, or so I am now realizing. It use to be important to me to be liked, now it is more important to me to be me and to be honest even when that honesty hurts. I can be brutally honest and I guess that is where people get the idea that I may be a bitch, oh well.

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