Matthew and I

Good Day from Your Gay Neighbor

Matthew and I are now getting stronger in our relationship. we have had our fair share of struggles and trials and tribulations, and a lot of these have been caused by people from both of our pasts. Let me introduce you to a few of these people.
Charles and Daniel, a gay couple, who Matthew knew before I met him and they had a building friendship and a sexual relationship of a different sort. Charles always thought that Matt would be free to play as his wing man and he also assumed that I would want to sleep with him, wrong on both accounts. This put quite the strain on us for the first few months of our lives together and we tried to just have a friendship with them as another gay couple, that never worked.
Charles and Daniel are very rude to me and I shall add them to the list of people who can just kiss my ass. Daniel tried to cause problems by bitching about me in emails to Matt and Charles why he was just a snake and wanted me out of the picture. There were many times when Charles would invite Matt to sex parties and stuff like that and I think for the most part he did that just to annoy me. And Daniel even went so far as to invite Matthew over to have sex with him on several occasions. Matthew never went.
Others who I have met from Matthews past who i really have no use for are Steve, Gabe, Julian, oh and that Michel. You can add them to the list of people I have no use for. Though I have tried to be at least friendly and Matt and I have tried to develop a friendship with all of them. They can't seem to get past a sexual relationship and I guess they all have enough friends.
People from my past past who Matthew have met are Brian, and Alex. We use to be good friends but after I started dating Matt they just fell away and dropped out of my life. Also there is Eric and he just got strange after I started dating Matt, maybe jealous I am not sure. Oh Eric and I use to date. Also Joe and Shaun, Joe was my best friend for well over 15 years and I thought that would never change. We are still friends but not near what it use to be. This was caused by him wanting Matt but not until after Matt and I started dating. There is something out there with gay men and I am not sure what it is but it seems a man becomes more desirable after he is in a loving relationship. Weird I know. I guess when you are single they look at you as undesirable but as soon as you are dating people hit on you more and everything. I think in part people want what they see you have and on the other hand people just want their single friend back. I  am not sure and  won't pretend to understand this part.