It amazes me how everything seems to come a complete 360 if you just wait for it to happen. Matthew arrived here 10 days ago and it has been a complete whirlwind of fun, love and romance, much like the first week we dated way back when. Matt and I started dating on March 17th of 2009 and we just fell in love, it was a whirlwind romance and I knew from the date I met him that I loved him and called him my lobster from the day we met. We moved in together on May 7th of that same year and yes we had our little problems, but we seemed to always make it through them no matter what. On April 30th of this year, we decided to separate because I just could not live in Vancouver anymore and be unemployed and Matthew could not move here because of his folks back in Vancouver, so the dogs and I came here, I started back to work and got a little apartment in a cute community, hooked up with some old friends and eventually became myself again. While in Vancouver, I just started to loose myself and who I was with all the challenges I faced there. The unemployment and the struggles of the phony people that became a thorn in my side. I just lost me and became a really different man than I ever had been before.
Anyhow Matthew and I have been on the phone and msn constantly since the day I left and he arrived a week ago wedenesday and came out to visit for PRIDE and stay for a while. Anyhow here is where the story unfolds, last Thursday a day after he arrived we were sitting at the Firken having a drink and I just looked at him and asked him to marry me on Tuesday, he said yes. So on Tuesday we headed down to city hall and applied for our marriage licence, After obtaining our licence we went up stairs and booked our wedding for the next afternoon at 1pm. So Wednesday July 6th at 1pm Matt and I got married, a week after his arrival here in Toronto. We had a great and intimate ceremony with a few friends, actually just 4 friends, Wayne, Martin, Angela and Nancy. It was perfect. I am so happy and now married. I truly love Matt now and always have since the day I met him. Thank you for a being in my life and with me dear. Anyhow now we will live apart and share our marriage in 2 different cites for now, until it is right for him to move. We both understand where we are and for the first time in years, I believe we are both at peace in our lives and being married is so right, and for me marriage is once and I am so glad it is Matt that I am married to. I am truly in love and we are so great together , he is my lobster! I will tell you all more about our wedding soon and Matthew's trip out here to Toronto and Pride here. You all have a great day and thank you for reading.
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